I am for peaceful coexistence of all communities and don't blame all the muslims. I have always pointed out that there are about 40million good muslims like Abdul Kalam, so we can't hate all muslims.
Killing of any innocents is wrong. But, you have to admit that Muslims have caused the killings of 50 milliion Hindus, raping of millions of Hindu women and destruction of thousands of temples, ruling over the natives for over 800 years, all since bin Qasim, and then partition of the nation. Do you deny all this? Why shouldn't the Hindus have a gripe?
As horrible as the Gujarat massacre was, it would not have happened if the Muslim mobs had not set the train on fire with the Hindus inside. In just about every case of Hindu reaction there were provocation by Muslims starting with the 1920's Khilafat movement massacre of Hindus by Muslims.
Having said that, all Muslims are not terrorists. Shia, Ahmedi and other groups are mostly peaceful people. The terrorists are the Sunni Deobandi Wahabis.