You believe in controlling others. You believe that by killing kafirs you will get 72 virgins. You try and attack the poor and weak and forcibly convert them.
And because of all this there is lot of kiling going on.
For survival you do not need aggression .
You say Islam is growing - maybe but are the people growing with it. See what is happening in muslim world they are now killing each other. you think people will survive like that.
The religion and its interpreters are responsible for what is happening in these countries not US ; UK.
The religion grows because it allows a few to play and lord over many not because it allows freedom of thinking.
One thing I agree that it is the religion based on fear and of cowards, how else would you explain that the women are kept in veil and full control.
It requires courage to allow people to be free and think and not to keep them in forcible control