Violence against anyone or any community is wrong. But, you have to realize that Muslims history of India had to inevetablly lead to Hindu assertiveness. In modern times, muslim aggressiveness was the source of Hindu assertiveness the starting point being the Calipahte movement of 1920 and the associated massacre of tens of thousands of Hindus. Gujarat massacre, as horrible as it was, would never have happened without the provocation by Muslism by buring alive the Hindus.
Muslims have to accept the truth. Defensiveness and denial is not the solution/