When u talk of different identities from state to state why do u get get jittery with kashmri identity whether muslim or pandit. BTW u may not know this kashmiri pandits and muslims get along very fine even in these troubled times.We have our distinct cultural, linguistic and local traditions which cannot be broken even though they may be damaged but time is the best healer.Trust me, left to the two communities you will have a peaceful kashmir in no time and most probably in India. Cant respond to ur last line though.