Basheer, I have read 2 versions (English translations) of The Quran and know for sure what its contents are. While good muslims like you quote the good verses, the mullahs quote the hate-filled verses and brainwash the impressionable youth to "fight in the cause of Allah".
The reforms in Islamic society has to come from within. It is the responsibility of liberal muslims like you to make your co-religionists about the futility of fighting in the name of religion.
Beleive in the basic goodness of all humanbeings and in the pinciples of neo-humanism. I am hailing from a place where we have abot 20% muslim population. We all live peacefully. It is only a few religious fanatics who are hell bent on creating problems.