i can only laugh at how you interpret every bit with some preconceived notion.
to me if a tit for tat does not work then nothing will.
so what is the solution? hardcore hindus dont want to involve muslims into any sort of debate and the muslims feel marginalized.
if something happens in denmark involving a cartoon then muslims in bosnia, india, indonesia get irked. nationalitic, religionistic, linguistic, casteistic, stateistic feeling are running high.