Violence will not solve any issues. Neither fanaticism. They should accept the differences and coexist,like in marriage.
Pakistan has to learn the lessons at least now. Democracy cannot be ushered in by killing the candidates, who become too popular for somebody's liking. You have to accept the will of the majority. A classic case was Al Gore, who got majority of votes, but accepted the system that elects the presidency in US. That type of maturity will be difficult in Pakistan or even in India.
People have to be educated and willing to accept the realities. I have come across Pakistanies who are suave and can mix in any company with dignity. But these very people hardly bother or unable to transfer their knowledge to the common Pakistanies back home that religion only cannot fill their stamachs. On the one hand, they live on charity from the oil rich Middle East countries and also ironically suck up to atheist China currying favours, playing the anti India card.
Stop playing the anti India feelings and look ahead to solve the issues of illiteracy and feudal thinking. Let both India & Pakistan face the real enemies of progress. It is like individual existence, where we worry about things which will never happen and something else will get you - like Bucknor in the end!