Dear brother. There are many versions of the hadits and scholars have argued over it for a long time. If you read www26.brinkster.com/sdolshah1/ayage.htm you can find the debate between islamic scholars itself. :-) The hadits also say that an ink of an scholar is holier than the blood of the martyr. :-) There are many hadiths that talk about love and affection between humanity. How come you never come across them ?