Sunil Ji, what do you mean "when you came". I was born in Kashmir. I speak the language of Kashmir. I know its history, and its culture, and I have shared the pain and anguish of my people. And you still think "I came". I am surprised how much Kashmir matters to you. You have nothing to do with it. You don't speak its language or know its customs or rituals. Why should it matter to you.
When you were under British, didn't you want freedom? British also occupied India by trickery, that did not stop the great Mahatma to give a call for freedom. Why should Kashmiris give up. It is their country, the beautiful motherland called Kashmir. If you come their with your weapons you will be treated as enemies, but if you come with no ill will we will treat you like great friends.
The real metaphor is this:
What will you do if someone occupied you in the guise of helping you? When the Hindu Maharaja signed the treaty with India it had no moral force. It is the same as the Nizam of Hyderabad who tried to sign treaty with the Pakistan. But did you accept it at that time. Why should Kashmiris accept a treaty signed by a ruler who was not even the real son of his father?