Dear if something happens worng in the past then this does not mean that it will be repeated in the future. Who is India? What makes the India.... nothing other than you and me .. dear? Dear as a family means mummy papa brother sister wife and kids the same a complete society is called a country and the name of our society is "INDIA". As their is no concept of united family their is no concept of united nation. The only thing you start considering not being the part of that family. So, better to call yourself as Indian because without the family you lose your identity. THINK OF IT SERIOUSLY