first wife: it is a virtue and a strong heart man's behaviour who can take this decision. those time when women had no respect this man Mohammad (SAWS) at a very youthful age of 25 married a twice widowed noble women who was at the age of 40. it is a very very pious deed. even today when a lot of organisations are working to so called uplift the women have got no guts to bring a single example like this. last wife: still there is a confusion among you people about the age Aisha (RA). marriage can happen only if both spouses are able to receive each other in with full understandging. what is your problem if his wife was young. do you know what was the age of shaitaan rushdie when he married padma lakshmi. he was 54 and she was 26. no news and there was no big hype about this. if both parties receive each other with clear mind then what is wrong in this. yes you have grown in a culture where child marriage was practiced. even infant were marreid before they come to know they aregetting married. and if the groom dies then girl is taken as vidhwa and treated like a scrap in the society. so you feel bad now and you accept that half of your religion is junk atually so you take islam also in the same way. dont do this. if you feel your religion is a junk then silently accept islam, islam will give you peace.
