I cannot agree with you more brother! In fact there is strong justification for that as India is divided into various states on linguistic basis. while kashmir speaks kashmiri, the language of Jammu is Dogri and that of Ladakh is Bodhi. I think it is best interest of people of all regions to get a separate state in case Jammu and Kashmir or UT status in case of Ladakh. The three regions have absolutely nothing in common inn terms of culture, language, food or even topography. If separate state is not possible , then all the regions should be given considerable regional autonomy so that Jammu and Ladakh regions dont feel left out of development