Talk some sense. Why blame others for fault of yours? Why not learn to discipline yourself and your fellow visitors, while visiting mandirs? Unless people become disciplined, no amount of management can help. Few days ago, I visited a mandir where about 2000 people ganthered. At one occassion, they ceated a stampade like situation and I was too stuck in between. People hardly follow any discipline and all they want to go first. This is the culture everywhere in our country.