oh, i thought of writing you a lenghty answer...but i guess it would suffice for you to know that i have a baby who is three and half months old now....it was born three months premature, so as of today it was supposed to be two weeks old.
When it was being delivered i was given the option of loosing the baby as 26 weeks would be extreme prematurinty and therefore lots of complications.
It now has a shunt for hydrocephalous after a shunt surgery (as good as a brain surgery) it underwent an ROP laser surgery to save its eyes (he is supposed to be blind now but i have faith in Allah that he will see one day). He underwent an operation for inguinal hernia yesterday and doing well now...and might live on oxygen help for somtime to come.
But seeing him gives me all the pleasure as a parent...while the nurses at the hospital tell me that so far they haven't seen a brave child as him.
So why did i not choose loosing him....becuase i would have committed MURDER. I would have played god and acting god is TREACHERY against GOD.
