I don't think it'll be that big a deal. I know I myself was almost aborted because my family had severe financial constraints at the time - they only didn't because some astrologer told them (incorrectly) they could have only one child. Doesn't mean I think my parents don't care for me now or that they love my sister more. Children do understand that people often face very difficult decisions and that life is hard. These parents will just have to tell their child in the right way, at the right time.