To preserve Muslim personal law and Hindu personal law is not being fanatic, he just wanted to give more time for societal evolution. The Constitution in its directive principle provides for Uniform Civil code. Nehru did not want linguistic reorganisation. Independent India had to suffer great food shortage but soon thereafter thanks to good governance, India recovered and was able to avoid famines and famines death, the way it frequently was in British era.
These are deep issues requiring great intellectual deliberation before we can conclude justly. But I greatly appreciate your love for India and respect the intensity of your emotions. Best wishes to you.
