yes friend.. in india these old do gooders speak in a strange language that george orwell called "new speak" .. here if you discriminate in favour of so called upper castes , hindus, men, corporate managers etc then thats discriminatory and evil.. but if you discriminate in favour of OBCs / dalits, other religious groups, women, workers etc then thats NOT discrimination.. if men mistreat women ( even verbal scolding) thats doemstic violence .. if women even kill men ( like in that ghastly apologist movie.. 'provoked')then thats something else definitely not violence!.. if a man demands sex from his wife then thats insensitive .. maybe even marital rape.. but if a woman does the same and a man is reluctant to have sex then thats mental cruelty towards her ( do u know men hv been jailed for inability to have sex on first night?).. an upper caste criticising an OBC / dalit is jailed under prevention of atrocities act.. but when they abuse and curse upper castes regularly in all forum.. then thats an intellectual / ideological discussion! wow india wow!