Shalu..u r not even of capacity to talk with grace... I gave a comparative issue to the "attrocities from generation" arguement of most of bc/obc people given here in support of reservation. So first try to understand what one wants to say. Now ur marriage n remove casteism thing. May b u have a problem with that. B'coz my gf (wld b wife) is obc n a doctor. She never used ne reservation..which is one of the reasons i respect her. Now one suggestion...do not bring parents here....i asked u n not ur parents. So i can c wat education they gave u....(u gave me this point...i personally never judge people's parents by seeing them n vice versa). I have been taught by my parents to respect all people who have self esteem n hard working. It doesnt seem the same for u..may b u have been taught (by ur part) to b without self esteem.