If i stop using my surname, from where will I get my morality? Unlike you, i cannot afford to bend front of frangi culture.. We love our Indian culture, and our morality is guided by our place in society... I do not wanna struggle with my identity because it doesn't guarantee that you will still feel victimized... All is in khopra, and once you stopped being a victim, you will progress... When i went through school, i didn't dream of IIT or IIM. I didn't need to.... Only very few selected people usually on insistence of their respective families take a shot at IIT or IIM.. Brahmins more than any other community just naturally go for this big test, and that too, through their shere hard work.. Not that i am saying other communities do not do that but it take cent percent determination to take shot at.. I have never studied the make up caste of IIT or IIM because it is not my mentality to see things through caste politics... That is a business of lower castes to perpetuate their artificial victimhood to real victimhood by their very mentality.
