Dear Suresh, What comes first for you, Your father or your mother? Stop asking such idiotic and much repeated grunts which has bombarded muslims continously for the last 50-60 years. This is not a race, first or second! Some things are mutually exclusive, they have their own reverence and respect, and none being less than the other, like your father and mother, like your country and your religion, Get it in your head now! and give us a break!