Why dont you both take a wow to say a prayer every night before going to bed. The prayer is, India is my country, Every Indians are my brothers and sisters.
It may help to release the frustration
But whatever Karunanidhi said is wrong if it is said to hurt, But he is a old man and he is revered for his age, will you not forgive your grand father?
As per rama sethu and its canal it should not be considered when so much of people opposing it. I think there should be a referendum on it if we are truly democratic. But the fact is it is not exactly the canal, but BJPs comback plan with preachings of hatred and violence are the concern. About the north south divide this is not the first time tamil bashing is done. Tamil nadu and tamils are hated allover India and you should accept it. Once I worked in mumbai and some people were saying lot of madrasis who spoil their party. The lot consists Mallus and telugus but IT is THE TAMIL WHO TAKE THE BRUNT ALWAYS Be it in bangalore or in Mumbai this is the sad situation of my people. If hinduism can change this step motherly treatments, I will really apprriciate it.
Believe me There should not be a canal if majority dont want it. all you have to do is do not abuse tamils as they are one lot of secular people and patriots as well.
