Whatever you have written was not originally the Hindu society. Hindus were much more matured some 2000 yrs back. (& we are becoming again) Everyone had social liberty, no work was considered as of lower grade. But some foolish people created the gap between castes & enforced Sati , dowary & similar practices, which were never a part of Hindu society, it was people like you who just for the sake of their self interest or may be frustration & to dominate the weaker section created such inhumane things & insulted the Hindu Gods. Even then their is an option for you ,you shd 1st try being Sati, as you like it so much. I hope I've not offended anyone except one :)