True, flowers in the other's garden have fragrance, but then very few educated Muslims have a moderate view point like yours. I have seen my own Muslim co workers, friends, acquaintances....almost all of them hardcore driven by religious frenzy. As a matter of fact being a software engineer, I too opted not to work for US, even at the cost of becoming a outcast within my own family. The genocide in Gujrat cannot be justified at all, but then Kashmir and Hurriyat Conference, Yasin Malik's statements, LeT,JEM,Hizbul Mujahideen, openly telling poeple in Pakistan to kill Hindus and maime India portray us a completely different picture of your community.