To your suggestion, marry the right girl... Is it possible ?
A girl in locality told the would be boy , she will marry him, but will not stay even for 1 day with his parents. Boy was only child, he refused. That is perfectly OK.
The problem is after a few boys rejest this girl, to get married she do not tell this condition to the other boy, and basically agrees to all the boy say. they get married and a conflict point starts. IS this fair to boy. After marriage husband has to agree to all what she says, else will never get divorce or children, and jail or underground along with distant relatives, by 498a ( dowry ) is inevitable . Also now the Domestic Violence LAW is made to ensure that costiliest relatives house is in trouble.
Defination of Violence as per this LAW is practically, ""potentiality of verbal abuse"". Potentiality of verbal abuse is sufficient to through husband out of own house.
Even if the girl has some mental problems or feminists influence, or medical problems. All these LAW remain the same. Boys should come to terms with reality. Chears.