The decision is totally the choice of partners. Different people have differnt likes and priorities in life. the problem is having partners with differnt priorities, one conflicting the interest of other. Dont force a female to leaver her job and remain inside the kitchen taking care of childrens and you.
Even after saying above, the best part of INDIAN females are they love remaining at home, taking care ,showering love to the whole familiy. and some do even do creative works to help her spouse during the free time in between.
hats off to females, We are nothing without you around through out our life.