see this article and the writer's mentality is what non muslims and indians find hurtful, distrustful and distasteful.
he has to remind us of kargil where we lost our young and some of india's finest. the macho aspect comes thru when he mentions his "commando general" LOL. funny joker.
the commando general who almost got his country bombed to the stone age by the US. indian women watching PTV to see a glimpse of the "commando general" yeah sure.
bad attitude and one which can only increase the fear and distrust of those with whom u r ostensibly trying to build bridges with.