Piyush, we as Indians never wanted a division,it happened and we got hurt by it. We should be proud of not letting India be defined on the basis of religion, because that would be too small a definition for our mighty nation. India is beyond definition and beyond religion and beyond politics. What makes this country so great is that me and you,might have such diverse opinions but tomorrow if "our nation" needs us,we both may join hands and stand next to each other. And about the kargil widows, like I said you may be right, its just a different opinion.