Raam, while undoubtedly having several excellent qualities that need to be emulated and imbibed, also had his shades of grey. He might be an example to everyone for the way one should treat parents and brothers, he can be hardly a role model for the way you should treat your wife. (There is no justification for leaving your pregnant wife in the jungle - and not even having the guts to do it yourself - getting your brother to do the dirty job - rather despicable, what!). For those who say that this is Uttar Ramayan and not Valmiki Ramayan, his treatment of Bali was even more despicable! Which warrior can justify shooting someone, who is not even your personal enemy, in the back, from hiding? (After getting confused the first time!) So, lets leave Ram out of it all and certainly lets leave Mandir out>
