Bhai peter, The heaven and hell are here in the earth only.. If you do good things you will get it back and doing such things will keep you happy thus your family will be also happy and you feel you are in heaven. If you do bad things like u do now u will be tensed (thinking abt u can't convert 1 person even after preaching hard) so pls. mind your own biz. everybody has the right to worship the God THEY like, not the GOD you dictates... pls. try to live n let live... ok my dear brother... sthothram!!!