well so far as marrying/molesting/raping sisters is concerned I think the monopoly is still with the minority community of our country. We use these words to show respect and its not like in our religion that you marry someone who was till yesterday calling you bhaijan and asking you to buy her a candy ;-) correct your language and english and many other things and dont talk abt hindu organizations, they are atleast not antinational and dont preach terrorism like most of minority organisations. Even god can not bless people like you....