Vedic life style is more logical than emotional. One should take pain and pleasure as same, its just emotional aspect of our mind. We should train kids to crush their emotional mind and develop their logical mind. Faith based spiritual practice is supposed to be in the initial stage of life and slowly one should progress through monotheist and finally into Atheist. That is Vedic style mind progression, for which one needs to follow the basic life styles. Then one can think boldly and ask tough questions, was the partition of India legal? Does monotheist represent Indian culture and how do we deal with the converts. We cannot be soft just to avoid blood shed. Arjuna killed his own people for to do what was righteous. We are not expanding by attacking Pakistan its just called crushing rebellion.