sir, this is the most foolish remark i have read..plz don't mind. i am electronics engineer from top college and i decided to stay back, i cud have also left for usa..nowdays it is no big deal..but i decided to stay back. are you saying that those who left their motherland for money are more patrotic than likes of me??? what is this perverted logic? and it is true that NRI's feel out of place untill they are not american/european born and bought up. ABCD's are a totally differetn story..but it is true that indian brought up people find it hard to adjust because of accent and behavorial difference with natives.. and that is when they remember india