It is not the Bahu.The defaulter is the SON who is responsible for the balance on both the sides.But in case of extreme situation,he is the one to decide and go for the soul that is responsible for his existence.Even i have visited such places and seen parents being kept in such places for reason that they are abroad and there is no one to take care ,so their parents are there.Rubbish ,if he can take care of his wife and kids ,one or two soul should not be a problem for him.Yes the western culture is killing our culture which is suppose to be the oldest in the history.Let's join hands to save it. ANIL SHARMA - 9820446202