There is a proverb which says that most of the time, it is a woman which causes more pain to another woman. Saas-Bahu issue has always been a great problem in india. Men wake up and take care of ur families. u have a very delicate activity of making both mother and wife love each other more. Don't neglect any of them. If not one may dominate other and finally no one realises but ur life is ruined.