India can handle China alone? I wonder what happened in 1962. Its the US which offered help in 1962. Taming the dragon is not easy, and yes, the dragon needs to be tamed. Its gaze has already fallen on Arunachal Pradesh, in case you didn't notice. I agree India should ultimately be strong enough to be able to handle the dragon alone, but why refuse help in the meanwhile?
Btw, I am staying in the US for the past 5 years. I am a non-citizen and am treated very well here. It looks like you had some bad personal experiences and that seems to be biasing you against the US.