I donot get offended. You are not the only one who is throughly confused. And Indians have to left their motherland be it Afganstan ( which was part of Indian culture during Chankya & ranjeet singh), Sindh, Punjab or Bangla and most recent is Kasmir. Very soon we are going to see the same in Assam.
Soft words and sophism look nice but it is no answer to hard reality. Kashmiri Pundit should learn a lesson from Isrealese who inspit of all odd could survive fro 2000 years. But I donot think with defeatists mentslity as displayed by Pundit they can ever go back to their motherland