You cannot digest the fact Dr. Kalam has never been to a madrassa, but still made a great impact. This is what hurts you and your entire clan. Majority Indians do not look at Dr. Kalam as a moslem. Rather as a true Indian.
What you need is somebody graduating out of madrassa, then should have an outing in the middle-east or North Africa or Afghanistan to stand fit to be called a true moslem.
