Rashmi, We have to understand the call of duty... the military is supposed to be like that.. their readyness to fight, the aspect of keeping away from family, all in the game. I do agree with the points you told, just to remind you that it is a part of their job. See our jawan's are protecting our soils, what about the fate of the forces sent for war in Iraq? Everyday they are blewed up for someone else, just to keep up the faces of political leadership.