Vishnuji -- Today a father does not know what his son or daughters are doing.How many parents really know about love affairs of their children.Very few. For many parents,it is surprise.If this is the situation , how will you know what your cousin is doing.So the benifit of doubt should be given to Dr Haneef and he should be spared from further harassment and humiliation. I respect the way his wife has shown grace,confidence and maturity while speaking to TV journalist.