hi brothers,when i say so ..i feel it.tthis community of yours is resposible for most of these hinous acts..iam not telling everyone in your community is like that..at the same tme no one has openly resisted this either..this silence on thses issues give an impression that these acts are justified by the community.If you dont feel so prove..prove with your actions. Take the responsibility..take actions against it..do something.. i think the solution lies in ISLAM itself. no one else can solve it. since no one else can solve it ..the community has to take the blame.... yasvanth