The family originates from Chikmagalur district of Karnataka. I know how the kids were brain washed right way back from 1961 to 65 when I was a small boy. The kids who were playing with us used to tell that this is not their country and Pakistal is their land. Also they were telling that Hyderabad and Chikmaglur along with Bidar, Gulbarga, Bagalkot, etc will become part of Pakistan. Off course on every argument my answer would be asking them to get out of India. The root cause is not the retalliation incidents of recent time. It must be their family's thinking. Remember Chickmagalur district has seen maximum communal riots since independace in Karnataka (always started by pakistan sympathisers). Also the multi married, multiple-offsprings holding illeterate, policy targets of congress, are propagating anti Indian & anti Hindu sentiments even today.
Be aware India. Think now to avoid tommarows horrors.