Although I never grew up as a muslim I can understand what you are saying. I never said that what some muslims are doing is correct or someone should support it. But at the same time I blame it on lack of Islam rather than presence of Islam. We are all brothers in humanity, we can differ in opinions. There are certain chapters in the Quran where you will find violence but if you read the history around it you will understand the context. Otherwise how can the same Quran say that there is no compulsion in religion ? Or something like "to you is your way and to me is mine"...