My friend, I dont think u r good at interpreting. In most of the quote u gave above it gaves as general statment. In some quotes its says you should wander about treating all creatures .... , in some place its says Whatever is disagreeable to yourself do not do unto others........ These are just the general list which u shoul not do or do. Like we say beta dont smoke, dong do bad thinks. etc. But the hadhees U quoted above clearly mentions that "u r not a beleiver" unless u wishes for ur brother what u wishes for yourself. just think which of these is strong statment.