Dear Ismail, I also have a lot of Muslim friends and sometimes we talk openly about the issues. We agree that there has been polarisation in the thoughts of both communities.
We must blame people from both communities for this situation.
Although we feel that there are many Hindus who openly oppose people like Bajrang Dal or VHP, any type of opposition in Muslim is considered as against Islam.
While many countries can come out openly to oppose cortunist depiction of Mohammed in Denmark and issue Fatwas, no one came forward to the barberic decision of punishing a rape victim in Saudi.
Someone will have to think and speak openly about why more than 90% of terrorists and sucide bombers are Muslims.
Islam need this culture of openness and not fatwas