Just to answer you: 1. Just by you alone saying don't support violence against Hinuds or Muslims... - does not change what many others did on the ground during those days. By stating openlythat "... the guys responsible for train incident were publicly hanged..." you state that this was a trigger.
2. For a moment let us agree the state government machinery did not act swiftly. There were mobs ruling the streets, but when the army was called by MODI, the police and the army killed more than 200 Hindus in the mobs. There are NO known reports of Modi saying he was happy to see dead bodies... This is a figment of media imagination or or political opponents. Have you seen, or heard him say this publicly anywhere. Are there any recordings of such words by him?
3. As long as Muslims think their public display of religion and anger is to be tolerated peacefully, however violent they may be, and there should be swift response to suppress any reaction by the sufferers of Muslim acts, you will continue to see this happen. This is not justifying violence. This is plain speak - if you cross the limits, the other side will pay back. Presence or absense of Modi does not matter. The politicians and Muslims must understand the anger of Hindus will boil if they try to do such things.
4. We are for peaceful, co-operative, honorable, equaly status living. Nothing more, nothing less for all Indians.
5. We want to kick corrupt, greedy politicians hard, where it hurts.