do you accept you were practicing SATI?. do you know when you started to abandon this? after muslim came to india and they advised people not to perfom sati. did you have language before muslim come to india? did you have any culture to say? your language culture mostly taught by muslims. however you will keep on changing the culture. next british came you started to follow their culture, now you can see the celbrations. New year. valentines day thanks giving etc. are you celbrting your festival as per your culture?