Do you mean Mughals destroyed the temples same way as your leaders destroyed Babri Masjid?
Anyway, I dont agree with you that Islam was spread on the tip of sword.
Recent example is our great music director AR Rahman!
And for your information our great great grand mothers were not raped rather got married to Mughals kings and their armies like what happened to Jodha Bai.
Our mamas like Raja Man Singh gave happily married off their sisters to Muslims.