Please understand that we do not hate Muslims. My best friends are Muslims. I have visited Ajmer Sharrif aswell. How many muslims have visited Hindu temples ?
I really feel sorry for Moderate muslims like you who have to take blame for others. The problem is that there are very few like you and most are like the one posting with the name Don or Golden. Since people like you are few, it becomes even more important that you become role model for other muslims. Guide them in Education and career. You have to compensate for 10 others who are giving Islam a bad name.
Unfortunately all educated Muslims distance themselves from un-educated muslims. Un-educated muslims blame others for your own failure. This fuelled by the Mullahs who do not attend regular school. The first step to success is accepting your shortcomings.
My simple question is: How will a poor Muslim father support education for 10 kids ? Rediff published an interview with the father of the Shahid (accused in Mecca Masjid blast) who wants his son killed. He had 11 kids. Is it surprising that his son was mis-guided ?
