Deal with the Chinese diplomatically and not antagonize them? Aren't you aware that China has exaactly been doing the opposite with respect with India for the past six decades? If the Chinese indeed want diplomacy and not antagonize India, can you explain why they gave the Pakis nuke bomb technology and offensive missiles? Or, why did they invade Inda in 1962 and been consistently trying to destabilize India through their paki proxies and the Indian communist traitors?
People like you need to understan that India would be taken for granted and aggressed upon by countries like Pakistan, BD and China as long as we behave timidly.