Dear Mohammed, Pls dont take it as a blame to your community. Its a fact that no body can deny. Mistakes happen to everybody. correcting it is the best thing one can do.we are not going to get benefited by citing examples of westereners of catholics or anybody.Even we have big Hindu families, but they have understood the fact and majority of them have accepted the concept of small family and thus being able to give better care and education to the kids. Whatever the religios books or prophet said was applicable at that time when the population was meagre. Today u know the scenario.So be ready to accept the fact and take corrective steps. Otherwise Lacs of Waheed's story is not far away.